There is a window of opportunity here to connect with a guy in your building that you already believe likes you.

This window of opportunity shouldn’t be squandered.

You are rarely seeing him around much due to your schedules, given that you both have lives.

He has places he has to be, and so do you.

Unbeknownst to you, there have been moments where you have missed each other by mere minutes.

The fact that you rarely see him shouldn’t be a reason for you to get stressed out and move on.

There is a base level of attraction that you believe has already been established with this guy.

Use that as your motivation to take the next critical step.

You are about to make a proactive move.

Since you rarely see him, you don’t have the luxury of constantly anticipating a time where you finally get to see him again.

Even if that happens, when?

If it happens in a month’s time or so, whatever chemistry you have established with him thus far would be lost.

And who’s to say that he won’t have a girlfriend by that time?

Strike while the iron is hot.

Be proactive.

Bake chocolate chip cookies or order some from a great bakery.

Go to his apartment door and knock on it.

If there is no answer, leave a note on the door with your phone number and leave the chocolate chip cookies at his doorstep.

Guys love desserts, especially chocolate chip cookies.

The note should state who you are, telling him that it was nice talking to him the other day, and that you had some cookies to spare from a huge batch you baked.

Leave it at that.

This is enough to pique his interest and get him to call or text you after he has enjoyed a few bites of the chocolate chip cookies.

On the flip side, if he is home and opens the door.

Do not invite yourself in, remind him of who you are, let him know that you had an overflow of chocolate chip cookies, and hand them over with your phone number included.

Say your goodbyes and leave him be.

You have played your part in putting the ball in his court, it is now up to him to call or text you if he so chooses.

Alright, this is the quickest and least complicated route to seeing this guy again before too much time goes by.

Nonetheless, if you have reservations about showing up at his door, there is an alternative.

Since you rarely see him around much, think back to the moments you have seen him in the past.

Where was it, and what day and time was it?

By thinking back to the few moments that you have seen him in the past, establish whether there is a pattern in where and when it happens.

For example, you realize that there is a pattern of you seeing him in a specific hallway, on a specific day, and at a specific time of day.

For the next week, make adjustments to your schedule so that you are available to be in that specific hallway, on the right day and time.

As long as he isn’t on vacation somewhere, you are bound to see him in that hallway during the course of the week.

Once you see him, there is no time to waste.

Engage in small talk and end the conversation by giving him your phone number.

Once you do this, the ball is now in his court to contact you and move this along.

Which means, you no longer have to stress anymore.

If he chooses not to contact you, it’s much easier to move on with a clear conscience, knowing that you were proactive in showing an interest in him.