It isn’t a good strategy to wear her down.

Although there are a few success stories when men are persistent with women, don’t be misguided by them.

The bulk of women who aren’t immediately super receptive to your advances are sincerely not interested in you.

There are plenty of women who are too polite in how they interact with a guy that is persevering in pursuing them.

She isn’t doing this because she is secretly interested in you.

She is polite so that she avoids conflict and awkwardness with you.

Women are conscious of how a good number of men behave when a woman isn’t receptive to their advances.

To circumvent getting into a testy situation with you, she is polite whenever you make moves on her, but it is based on her desire not to cause any friction with you.

Unfortunately, the man assumes that her polite behavior is a consequence of his ongoing success in wearing her down and getting her to open up to the idea of going out on a date with him.

In most cases, she doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea, but is so concerned for her personal safety and the potential for getting stuck in a painfully awkward situation as you talk to her, she defaults to showing an outward appearance of politeness towards you.

Meanwhile, you are thinking that you are making headway with her and wearing her down, opening her mind to the idea of going out on a date with you in the foreseeable future.

This means that you are looking forward to the next time you see her and initiate a conversation with her.

Her thinking is usually the opposite.

She felt awkward the last time you initiated a conversation with her, and shivers at the thought of how uncomfortable you made her feel as you repeatedly entered her personal space in that moment.

She did everything in her power to remain polite, but she wanted the moment to end as quickly as it began.

After the ordeal finally ended and you parted, she was dreading the thought of having to go through that again.

She didn’t want to see you again in that capacity.

This is a completely different perspective from the one you are having.

That of excitement, as you think about how close you are to fully wearing her down and making her completely receptive to your advances, so that she finally goes out on a date with you.

The reality is, the silent resentment within her is building up, and brewing.

Inevitably, you approach her for the umpteenth time and she finally explodes, letting out all of the resentment she has been suppressing for the past few weeks and months that you have been pursuing her.

She is suddenly barking at you to leave her alone.

This is how it all ends.

Weeks and months of wearing her down led to this.

She finally musters the courage to stop the politeness and snaps at you to leave her alone.

All this time that you thought you were breaking through to her wasted.

This is time that you would have been better of pursuing a woman that had shown a sincere interest in you from the beginning.

The only time that it is a good strategy to wear a woman down who isn’t immediately super receptive to your advances is when you establish a friendship with her.

By doing this, you stay in her orbit.

As long as you don’t get her too comfortable with the concept of you as her friend, and find moments to flirt with her and tease her, you have a shot at getting her to lower her resistance towards you over time, as she gets to know you as a person and you get to know her.