Regardless of what he says to you to make amends, it doesn’t change the fact that he did you wrong.

It’s tempting to give him another chance when he is a charmer.

He has a way with words, and knows what to say to make you feel special, safe, and reassured.

On top of this, you still think he is attractive, and it’s not like you have been having much luck in the dating market of late.

You want to believe that he is remorseful for the wrong he did, and intent on doing better, if were to decide to give him another chance at courting you.

Being forgiving is a wonderful trait, as it keeps you from walking around laden with negative energy.

That being said, you still have to be careful in who you choose to forgive.

There is no crystal ball that can tell you whether he is going to act right the next time around and not wrong you.

The closest thing you have to a crystal ball is his dating history.

Does he have a history of wronging women in the same way he did you?

This is where it is beneficial to you to do your homework on this guy and learn about his dating history.

Find out whether he has committed the same wrong to women he has courted and dated in the past.

In the modern world we live in, technology has made it easy to find out so much about someone.

Using his social media or information you glean about him on other online platforms, you get to piece together his past.

Using mutual friends as a source of information about his past is an additional avenue to learn about his dating history.

Does he have a good reputation with women he has courted and dated in the past?

Does he have a track record of wronging women in the same vain that he did you?

A guy with a bad reputation with women he has courted and dated in the past, and a history of wronging them in the same vain he has you, isn’t worth giving another chance to court you.

This saves you from the looming prospect of being wronged by him again.

By letting him court you once again, you are bound to develop stronger feelings for him by the time he wrongs you again.

With stronger feelings for him, it is that much more painful when he wrongs you, and that much harder to let him go.

Conversely, if you learn that women he has courted and dated in the past only have nice accounts of his character, and he never wronged any of them in the same manner he did you, there is justification in giving him another chance.

That being said, thread with caution as he courts you.

Avoid becoming emotionally invested in him until a sufficient amount of time has elapsed, and he has given you no reason to believe that he is about to wrong you again.