There were several hopes and dreams that you placed on this girl.

When she ghosted you, it shattered all of those aspirations.

The thought of her hanging out with you on weekends was shattered.

The thought of traveling with her to somewhere exotic while on vacation, shattered.

The thought of living with her with a cute adopted dog from an animal shelter, shattered.

And this was just the tip of all of the delusions you envisioned about this girl.

Unfortunately, the cruel reality that this girl wasn’t feeling likewise about you soon hit you.

She ghosted you.

Now you are in quite a predicament.

You have to see her every day.

Every time you see her, you are reminded of what never was and it is painful.

You want to be over this.

Never have you ever wanted to get over someone so badly and move on.

To get over this girl, pursue another.

When you occupy your time by going after a new girl, you are pushing residual thoughts about the girl who ghosted you out of your mind.

Instead of waking up in the morning and immediately thinking about the days you were texting this ghoster with your head in the clouds, imagining the surreal future that awaited you both, you are thinking about the new girl.

You are thinking about sending the new girl a good morning text or a funny meme.

Steadily, the new girl moves into your headspace.

With each passing day, you are thinking about the girl that ghosted you less.

Before you know it, you are over her.

Once this happens, you won’t care that you see her every day because whenever those moments occur, you are too preoccupied with texting the new girl you have been pursuing.

Since you have to see the girl that ghosted you every day and you have no choice in the matter, use her as a positive reminder of what not to do when you are wooing a girl.

Every time you see her, recite in your mind everything that you have now learned about wooing a girl, thanks to her.

You have learned about not getting carried away with a girl you barely know, who hasn’t given you much to work with besides the fact that she is pretty.

Let the sight of her be a constant reminder to you of what you shouldn’t do when you are talking to a girl you are interested in.

Let it be a reminder to never get lost in a pretty face.

A girl’s character is just as important.

This girl doesn’t have much of one, given that she ghosted you.

Whenever you see her, tell yourself to never get lost in a girl’s beauty, but to have the patience of a fox whenever you woo a girl.

She is your walking bible.

She might as well have the ten commandments scribbled across her chest.

That’s what you see whenever you see her.

Your own invisible version of commandments that you mustn’t break moving forward.

By regularly applying this mental exercise, the power she has over you whenever you see her completely crumbles.

She becomes a testament to an important lesson in dating.

This is how you put a positive spin on this ghosting affair and move forward with your life.