Anger can be a turn on to a girl.

That being said, the type of anger displayed is pertinent.

When you show abusive anger, where you insult or denigrate her, this is a turn off to a healthy-minded woman with a robust sense of self-esteem.

This is anger that doesn’t give her a good impression of you.

It’s anger that makes you seem like an arrogant bully who is disrespectful of her.

The only women that tolerate this type of anger are women who have been physically and verbally abused in the past.

A woman who has spent years in an abusive relationship, and hasn’t done the work on healing herself emotionally, is much more susceptible to tolerating a man who shows abusive anger.

This type of abuse is what she knows and is used to.

Her self-esteem has taken such a hit that she believes that being on the receiving end of his abusive anger is what she deserves.

It’s not that she gets turned on by his abusive anger, it’s more so that it triggers a desire in her to prove to him that she is someone worth dating.

That is the constant mental battle that a woman who is suffering from the negative effects of a prior abusive relationship endures.

She not only has a low opinion of herself, but believes that increasing her value calls for her to appease him and take the abuse in the process.

To her, he is the sole person that has the power to validate her self-worth.

It doesn’t matter how many people in her life tells her that she has value, whether it be family or friends.

All she wants is to prove her worth to the one person that decimated it in the first place.

Unfortunately, showing anger to a woman that has been abused in the past and hasn’t recovered from it, isn’t beneficial to either party, even when it seems like she is turned on by it.

She isn’t turned on by it.

She tolerates it due to her low self-esteem and a desire to prove her self-worth to the man that has shown this anger towards her.

This means that the relationship that ensues with this woman won’t be healthy.

Misconstruing her acceptance of your anger as a sign that she was turned on by it, compels you to exhibit that anger again in the future.

Every time you exhibit this anger, it is exponentially intense and abusive.

The potential of it crossing over into physical abuse isn’t out of the question.

Regardless, this abusive anger makes for an unhealthy relationship for either party.

Any woman that seems turned on by abusive anger is not a woman that is prepared for a healthy long-term relationship.

Getting into a relationship with her is a ticket to unhappiness and turmoil for the duration of the relationship.

The anger that is a turn on to a girl is positive anger.

This is anger exhibited when you are in the midst of protecting or defending her.

Imagine a scene where you are in public with her and someone verbally or physically assaults her.

You step in to protect and defend her, exhibiting anger at her assailant while doing so.

Though potent, this anger is controlled, with you at the ready to do what you must to keep her safe.

This is positive anger, and it turns her on.