When he approached you and asked for your phone number, you gave it to him.

That was your first blunder.

It is wrong, misleading, and cowardly to give out your phone number to a guy you already know you have no interest in.

There was no physical attraction.

Yet, you gave him your phone number when he requested it.

This isn’t the first time you have done this either.

Stop it.

When you already know that you have no interest in a guy, you only egg him on by giving him your phone number, having misled him into thinking that you like him.

It takes a lot of courage for a man to step up to a woman and open a conversation.

Before this guy approached you, it took him a while to gather up the courage to do it.

When you gave him your phone number, you gave him the impression that he had piqued your interest.

The sad part about this is that he spent the rest of that day thinking about you.

He was thinking about the conversation he had with you and how much he liked you.

He was envisioning taking you out on a date, and got excited at the thought of it.

It’s probable he went as far as thinking about life with you as his future girlfriend.

Yes, guys do get carried away when they like a girl.

Especially when it is a girl they built up the courage to approach.

By the time he called or texted you, he was already exhilarated over the thought of asking you out on a date.

When you didn’t say yes to going out with him, he was crushed.

All of the prior fantasies he created in his head about you were now all up in smoke.

Out of nowhere, you say no to his request to go out and he is flummoxed.

He is thinking about when he approached you and how friendly and accommodating you were.

He is thinking about the moment he asked for your phone number and how enthusiastic you were to give it to him.

Everything fell in line perfectly, and yet, you ended up not saying yes to going out with him.

He is baffled, and struggles to comprehend what happened.

His obsession with your refusal is that much more likely when he is a guy who isn’t used to approaching women.

This means that he had to work extra hard to summon up the courage to approach you in the first place.

The fact that you got him so excited by giving him your phone number, only to crush his excitement by not saying yes to going out with him, puts him in a distraught and complicated headspace.

A guy like this is prone to not taking this so lightly, as it isn’t easy for him to merely brush it off and move on.

Next thing you know, you are getting incessant phone calls from him.

You block him, but that doesn’t matter.

He uses unknown phone numbers to call you, and furthermore, stalks you on social media.

Does this give you a little anxiety?

Hopefully, this guy doesn’t go as far as stalking you, but it’s time you evolve.

Do not give men you aren’t interested in your phone number.

If you keep doing this, its only a matter of time before you are unlucky enough to give it to a guy who won’t take no for an answer when he asks you out on a date.