Unfortunately, there are plenty of people who lie about what they want when dating.

A woman that lies to you about what she wants is being disingenuous, and has selfish motivations.

She is saying what she thinks you want to hear.

This is all about getting what she wants at all costs.

She isn’t taking into consideration that what you want is critical to you.

She is far too caught up on getting what she wants out of you.

So she lies, making up a story about what she wants.

She has already assessed you, knowing full well the words you want to hear her say.

By telling you what you want to hear, she tricks you into courting her.

As you court her, she is on her way to getting what she wants.

The idea is to keep this act up until you fall for her.

She is pining for you to fall for her.

She knows that once you fall for you, you are emotionally invested in her.

When you are emotionally invested in her, there are stakes.

This is a girl that has gone through painful breakups in the past.

These breakups were with men she was herself with.

She didn’t lie about what she wanted to them.

Yet, they listened to what she had to say, acted as though they were on the same page, and proceeded to take advantage of her.

She is done with the betrayal.

Moving forward, she is protecting herself from this sort of overwhelming emotional pain by lying about what she wants.

Two can play that game.

Sadly, you have nothing to do with her past breakups that shattered her emotionally.

Nevertheless, she is blinded with her intention to protect herself, believing that the end justifies the means.

Even though she is lying about what she wants, she believes that you will appreciate who she really is when the real version of her finally comes to light.

Until then, she keeps up the act.

The tables have turned.

She is no longer the emotionally vulnerable one, whoever she is dating is.

You have fallen for her lies, and have no inkling of it.

Thinking that she is who she has deceived you into thinking she is, you court her wholeheartedly.

Inevitably, she becomes a permanent fixture of your daily thoughts, and you are already picturing what a future with her looks like.

Naturally, you develop an emotional attachment for her.

Once this happens, she has you cornered.

She knows that she is now safe to come clean with who she really is, and what she wants, knowing full well that you won’t have the courage to leave her so easily.

After all, you are emotionally invested in her.

At this point, you are forced to accept her for who she really is, the person she has been hiding from you all this time.

By accepting her, she has achieved her ultimate goal, and she believes she has been vindicated of all of her lies.