A spark is but fleeting.

What makes a relationship endure is how you connect on a personal level.

You aren’t attracted to your girlfriend’s personality.

This is a serious issue.

Regardless of the spark you have for each other, the health and longevity of a relationship relies on much more than a spark.

A spark is short-lived.

What carries a relationship long term is how your personalities blend.

She has only been your girlfriend for one month.

This means that you aren’t too far into this relationship.

As of now, the emotions you feel for each other are on a surface level.

Nothing has completely set in.

Breaking up at this time is far easier than breaking up several months from now.

In several months, emotions are deeply-rooted.

It’s much harder to break up with her without feeling a degree of guilt in knowing that you let the relationship go on for longer than was necessary, and she now cares about you deeply.

It’s better to break up with her now, while the relationship is new.

A long-term relationship with her won’t work when you aren’t attracted to her personality.

In keeping this relationship alive, it is only a matter of time before you become irritated and agitated by her.

All of a sudden, you lash out at her with insults, and hurt her feelings.

The longer you stay in the relationship, the worse it gets.

You become unhappy, feeling as though you are wasting your life with her.

She becomes the source of your ire and the tongue-lashing gets worse.

Before you know it, you are the archetype of the worst type of partner.

The one that verbally abuses his girlfriend.

Is this who you want to be?

It has only been a month since she has been your girlfriend, which means it is early yet.

Breaking up with her now, saves the two of you from having to deal with any severe emotional repercussions.

Yes, she won’t be happy about it.

Nonetheless, you are doing her a favor.

You are saving her from falling for you that much more and finding herself in an unhealthy relationship with an unhappy partner.

There is a reason why you have realized that you aren’t attracted to her personality.

There are elements of her personality that have come to light.

Elements you weren’t privy to when you were courting her.

It’s possible that she hid these elements from you.

But, let’s give her the benefit of the doubt in believing that she didn’t.

When you don’t take the time to court a girl over a period of a few months before making her your girlfriend, you risk running into the issue you are having now.

You aren’t attracted to her personality.

Wouldn’t it have been much better to learn about this before making her your girlfriend?

Next time, give it a few months before making it official with a girl.

In courting a girl over a period of few months, you get to see much of her character.

This gives you the knowledge you require to decide whether she would be a suitable girlfriend to you.