Alas, your boyfriend has not been forthright with you about his sexuality.

This isn’t the first time he has been intimate with a guy.

He has experimented with guys in the past, long before you became his girlfriend.

It goes without saying, he wants to maintain a facade to the world that he is heterosexual.

That is where you come in.

Yes, he is attracted to you, but he is attracted to guys too.

He wants to have an outward appearance of a heterosexual, but have the ability to dip his foot into homosexual activity every now and then.

No matter how much he told you that he loves you and that he won’t cheat again, he will.

Once the itch arises in him, he is inclined to scratch that itch.

That means that he is cheating on you again in the foreseeable future.

It might be with the same guy or someone new.

He is a cheater.

Irrespective of the fact that he cheated on you with a guy, he is still a cheater.

Once he has tasted what it is like to cheat, and has gotten away with it, the odds that he cheats again is enormous.

You are thinking about letting him off aren’t you?

You are thinking about forgiving him.

He is counting on this.

He knows that you love him.

That is one of the reasons why he had the nerve to cheat on you.

In the back of his mind, he knew that if it was ever to come out that he cheated on you, he was probably going to be forgiven.

It was a thrill to cheat on you.

He enjoyed it.

He wasn’t feeling guilty when he was having sex with the guy.

On the contrary, he was elated.

His heart was pounding and veins pulsating.

It was the most excitement he has had in a while.

Granted, since then, he has told you that he loves you and that you are the one he wants to be with.

Being that he knows you love him, he is counting on this to get you to forgive him and not dump him for what he has done.

If you let him off the hook for this, you empower him.

He gets a much larger rush from cheating when he knows he has gotten away with it.

As you are ruminating over this, it’s tempting to think that by him cheating on you with a guy, it is less of a big deal than if it had been with a woman.

This is false.

The act of cheating isn’t somehow watered down when a person cheats on their partner with someone of the same sex.

In following a rationale that it isn’t as big of a deal, you mislead yourself into thinking that the likelihood it happens again is minimal.

After all, he was merely exploring his sexuality and is now done with it.

Yet again, false.

This isn’t the first time he has been intimate with a guy and won’t be the last.

And no, it isn’t any better that the person he cheated on you with was a guy.

Cheating is cheating.

A boyfriend that gets away with cheating on his girlfriend, is emboldened to do it again.

Do you want to be that girlfriend?

The one that keeps crying and complaining to friends and family every few months about how her boyfriend has cheated on her yet again?

The power is in your hands to steer clear from a future of endless heartbreak.

Break up with him and never look back.