It’s not unusual to suddenly find yourself being admired by women, as a man with a girlfriend.

You never received anywhere near this amount of attention from them when you were single.

Yet, since you have had a girlfriend on your side, women have been checking you out, left and right.

This is attention that you aren’t at all used to and you don’t know how to handle it.

With this many women liking you, you struggle to ignore them.

Every time you tell yourself that you won’t look at these women as you are out and about with your girlfriend, you find yourself stealing looks at them while your girlfriend is preoccupied.

This is natural.

You aren’t used to this much attention from women.

Prior to getting a girlfriend, women barely looked at you.

They weren’t exerting themselves to establish eye contact with you, nor smiling in your direction.

They weren’t obsessively walking by you, nor raising their voices to get you to look in their direction.

When you have been so starved of female attention much of your life, it’s natural to want to bask in it.

In moments where your girlfriend is preoccupied, you hold out for as long as you are capable, but inevitably, you start looking for the attention of women in the vicinity.

You spot a beautiful girl close by, staring at you with a smile, and your adrenaline levels surge, along with your heartbeat.

Yet again, a woman at large is flirting with you from a distance with her eyes.

The attention you have been receiving from all these women since you got a girlfriend is addicting.

Every time it happens, you want more of it.

This brings you to the question at hand.

How to handle these women when you already have a girlfriend.

At the end of the day, you aren’t a puppet on a string.

These women that are showing you all this attention aren’t puppeteers.

You have full control over how you behave around them.

They are drawn to the fact that you have a girlfriend.

The fact that you were chosen by a woman makes them believe that you must be desirable.

They are curious about what your girlfriend sees in you, and you are intriguing to them for this reason.

All of a sudden, you are no longer invisible to these women.

They know that you aren’t a thirsty desperate guy, on account of you already having a girlfriend.

This makes you that much more appealing to them.

These are all conclusions they have drawn about you based on the sight of you walking with a girl.

That being said, they don’t know you.

They are attracted to the fact that you have a girlfriend.

No romantic chemistry or spark has been established with these women.

Whenever you are receiving attention from these women, you are vulnerable to getting lost on the idea that these women wholeheartedly like you.

The truth is, you are still the guy you have always been.

The one thing that has changed is that you now have a girlfriend.

By letting all this attention get to your head, you keep getting distracted by it.

Your girlfriend is catching you in the act in due course.

This happens enough times, and it isn’t out of the question that she breaks up with you.

Once she breaks up with you, the same girls who have been giving you all this attention won’t notice you anymore.

The same girl that was looking at you at the mall last week before your girlfriend broke up with you, is now ignoring you.

As you attempt to talk to her, thinking that she is about to be your next girlfriend, she scoffs at you and is in a hurry to get away from you.

This is the reality that awaits you if you let all this newly found attention from women get to your head.

You aren’t a chick magnet.

Not without a girl by your side.

Once you acknowledge this reality, you won’t care to return the attention these women give you when you are with your girlfriend.

This is how you handle them.