As women age, their priorities change.
When younger, they are more concerned with a man’s physical appearance and notoriety.
When they are older and looking to settle down, they are more concerned with a man’s ability to protect and provide.
Her priorities change as she ages, especially once she reaches her late twenties and looking to get married.
Therefore, it’s not that she lowers her standards, but more so that her priorities change.
She wants a man who has shown a stability in how he manages himself and his money.
As an older woman in her late twenties and up, she wants to settle down with a man that she knows has the capability to protect and provide for her and her future offspring.
Her standards go up in how accomplished and financially successful she expects the man to be, but lowers in how attractive she expects him to be.
Yes, she persists in wanting whoever she settles down with to be attractive to her.
That hasn’t changed.
Nevertheless, she is not as stringent with her physical expectations in a man she chooses to date, as she was in her teens and early twenties.
Basically, a gorgeous man in his late twenties and up who can’t hold down a job, and isn’t financially solvent in life, is less likely to get a woman his age to settle down with him.
The same gorgeous man in his late teens and early twenties who can’t hold down a job, and isn’t financially solvent in life, won’t have any trouble getting to date the same woman in her late teens and early twenties.
This has to do with a woman’s priorities being different at different stages in life.
While in her teens and early twenties, she is more concerned with vibes than she is with how financially stable and successful a man she chooses to date is.
She has less concern about whether he has shown a capacity to pay a mortgage, and more concerned about the butterflies he gives her internally.
Women get married between the ages of 28 and 29.
At this stage in her life, she wants to find a man she believes has what it takes to secure her future and that of her future offspring.
She has had her years of frivolous fun with the guys she has dated in the past.
That time has passed.
Her standards have changed.
She doesn’t expect a man she dates to look like an Adonis.
Although she still wants to be physically attracted to you, she is ready to make concessions in areas she never would have when she was in her teens and early twenties.
Are you losing a little hair?
Have you developed a slight pudge around the waist?
Has your skin lost a little smoothness?
Is your eyesight not as sharp as it once was?
Have you seen a few strands of hair on your face and head turn a little gray?
These are changes that occur with age.
She is open to giving you a pass on several of these, as long as you make up for it in your ability to protect and financially provide for her and her future offspring.