A person who previously dated a married person is of questionable character.

Knowing how disagreeable this sounds, she is inclined to give you a bunch of excuses as to why she previously dated a married person.

Some of the most popular excuses being that she wasn’t aware that he was married, or he told her that he was separated from his wife and in the process of getting a divorce.

The truth is, she wanted to date him and didn’t care that he was married to someone else all that much.

Human beings are innately selfish.

We want what we want, when we want it.

The onus is on her to be aware of the relationship status of whoever she dates.

Even if she genuinely didn’t know that he was married when she first met him, she later found out that he was, and still chose to keep dating him.

This is where further excuses are told.

He told her that he was separated and working on divorcing his wife.

Not so fast.

She never attempted to make him prove this by providing legal documents to show that he was looking to divide financial assets and was on a legal path to divorce.

Conveniently, she takes his word for it and doesn’t demand further legal proof.

This is so that she doesn’t have to be responsible for breaking up a marriage.

It’s her get-out-of-jail-free card so to speak, absolving her from the responsibility that comes with dating a married man.

Once she learned that he was married, the onus was on her to stop the courtship.

If he told her that he was separated and working on a divorce, the onus was on her to demand he give her evidence of that in legal documents.

In choosing not to do this, she is absolving herself of responsibility.

This gives you a preview of what her behavior is destined to be like as a future partner.

She doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and isn’t trustworthy.

Her past behavior is a strong indication that she is selfish, and doesn’t care who she hurts to fulfill her happiness.

Is this what you want in a partner?

Although she isn’t married, she was dating someone who was.

This means that she was enabling him to cheat on his wife.

If you choose to date her, and marry her one day, what do you think she will think about cheating on you?

It won’t be too hard for her to do it, considering that she has already dated a person who was married in the past.

A person’s history is who they are.

Sometimes, when we like someone who has a questionable past, we make ourselves believe that the person has changed.

We want to believe it, given that there are other elements about the person that we like so much.

This is to our detriment, as the person’s ability to take responsibility and be trustworthy is what ultimately determines whether the relationship lasts.

Don’t get caught up with the smoke and mirrors.

Yes, she is pretty, great in bed, and gives you loads of compliments.

None of this changes the fact that her dating history is a red flag.

She knew she was dating a married person and chose to keep dating him.

This is how you know that she isn’t a suitable long-term relationship prospect.