There are instances where opposites attract.

There have been several moments where you witnessed this phenomenon in public but didn’t realize it.

These are the moments where a skinny guy with an overweight woman have walked passed you, and you didn’t think much of it.

All of a sudden, you are in a situation where you are now the skinny guy walking with an overweight woman.

A situation you never actually envisioned yourself in, until now.

You aren’t the first skinny guy that has fallen for an overweight woman, and you won’t be the last.

There are instances where opposites attract each other, especially when they have had a similar life experience.

That of being made fun of or looked down upon for their size.

There have been several moments in your life where you have been made fun of for being a skinny guy.

This hasn’t been relegated to strangers.

Your own family members and friends have made fun of your skinny size in the past.

Whenever you watch movies or read comic books, it isn’t usually the skinny hero that is presented to you.

It’s the hero who looks like he was made in a factory, with his bulging muscles and massive physical frame dominating every scene he is in or page he is on.

You haven’t grown up being shown that a skinny guy can be a hero, at least, not all that often.

The overweight woman has had a similar life experience.

She has been made fun of by people too, and not only strangers.

Like you, her own family and friends have made fun of her overweight size.

When she looks at fashion magazines or reads romance novels, she isn’t presented with women her size.

She is presented with slim women wall to wall.

Like you, she knows what it is like to be looked at as less than the ideal of what is considered physically desirable.

This is where you two have something in common.

You didn’t realize this when you met her, but there was a similarity in life experience that was mutual.

You knew what it was like to be judged, or to be instantly put in a box based on your outward appearance.

Even though you didn’t realize it at the time, on a subconscious level, this similarity in life experience is what made you open to the idea of getting to know her.

As you got to know her, you realized that she had a great personality.

This was so different from the coldness you have endured from women you have pursued in the past.

The women that weren’t overweight, but slim and fit.

The ones that could easily grace the covers of a fashion magazine or romance novel.

Several of them lacked in personality.

Whenever you were pursuing them, it was a struggle to get them to have a meaningful conversation with you.

Whatever conversation that was generated was usually superficial.

Furthermore, they were so conceited in their demeanor, you were constantly turned off.

Talking to them was customarily mentally exhausting and unsavory.

After a lifetime of this, it was no wonder that you welcomed the humble demeanor of this overweight woman with a measure of gladness.

As you got to know her, she consolidated herself as a breath of fresh air.

She was so different from what you were used to.

Unlike those insufferable slender women, she was fun to talk to.

Her demeanor was kind, nurturing, and warm.

You had no idea how much you desired this demeanor from a woman until her.

That is why you have fallen for her.

Any doubts you had about her overweight size when you initially met her no longer matter, given that she has made up for it in spades with her delightful personality.