Will Men Still Approach And Speak To Women With A Man Next To Them?

Will Men Still Approach And Speak To Women With A Man Next To Them?Men won’t approach and speak to women with a man next to them.

They immediately assume that the man she is with is her boyfriend.

It doesn’t matter that in reality he is your platonic male friend, brother, or male cousin.

A man who doesn’t know you nor him is abruptly assuming that the man that is next to you is your boyfriend.

Regardless of how much you want men to approach you in public, having a man walking next to you is far too discouraging.

No man wants to risk getting punched in the face over a girl they don’t know in public, irrespective of how pretty she is.

To increase the chances of getting approached by men that see you in public, ditch the man that is next to you and walk alone.

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When you are alone, you are less intimidating to approach.

This being said, there are a few occasions where men who are complete strangers to you will still approach you and speak to you with a man standing next to you.

For one, the guy that is standing next to you is distinctly gay.

He has all of the mannerisms of an effeminate gay man, from the loud colors and skinny jeans, to the elaborate swing of his hips as he walks alongside you.

It doesn’t take long for men to surmise that he is a gay man who so happens to be your friend.

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This encourages a man to approach you without any fear that the man beside you is likely to punch him in the face.

Next, there are times when you are with a man but it is obvious he isn’t your boyfriend.

This is usually a man that has been talking and flirting with several girls as you have been walking about with him.

Men who see that the man that is next to you is freely stopping to talk to various girls and flirt with them as he is walking with you, are fairly quick to surmise that he isn’t your boyfriend.

No girlfriend with any self-respect is letting her boyfriend walk straight-up to multiple women and flirt with them in her presence.

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For men to pick up on this, they have to observe you as you walk about with this guy for a while.

After seeing him walk up to multiple girls to instigate a conversation, these men conclude that he must be a platonic male friend of yours, and it is safe to approach and speak to you.

Lastly, when there is a wide age disparity with the man that is next to you, most men assume that the man is an older male relative such as a dad or uncle.

That being said, they do know that romantic relationships where there is a wide age disparity do exist, so they wait to pick up on further signs that he is an older male relative of yours.

Once they overhear him talking to you, using words such as “Your mom,” “Your brother,” “Your sister,” in a few of his sentences, they know for certain that he is an older male relative of yours.

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It still requires a very confident guy to make an approach when there is an older male relative at your side.

Nevertheless, the few men that muster the courage to do it have surmised that he isn’t a romantic partner of yours, which makes you fair game.

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