What a pickle you are in.
In all seriousness, all you have to do is reschedule a date with one of these men.
Clearly, you are interested in each one and weren’t anticipating that they would set a date with you at the same time and day.
Notwithstanding, these men wouldn’t have set a date with you if they weren’t interested in you.
To this end, it’s unlikely that any of these men take offense at you asking to reschedule.
These men are grownups.
They can handle a little bit of a disappointment in not getting to see you on the planned date.
Think about the one out of these two that you believe you have had the strongest connection with thus far.
This is the guy that you have had the most emotionally fulfilling conversations with.
The one that you have felt the most comfortable and at ease talking to.
The one that seems to get what you are saying without you having to go into too deep of an explanation.
Yes, it’s like you have known each other forever.
That sounds stereotypical, but there is a reason why people who are in long-term successful relationships often say that it felt as though they already knew their partner before ever meeting them.
This is when you are on the same wavelength with each other.
You have a similar way of looking at the world and at life.
There is a lot to be said about someone that you connect with on this level.
It’s someone who gets you.
A person that gets as excited as you do as you talk about topics you are passionate about.
This is powerful, and is often an indicator of how well you would get along as a future couple.
That being said, it doesn’t guarantee that he is your soulmate, but it lays the groundwork for a relationship with the potential for a healthy longevity.
Keeping all of this in mind, think about which one of these guys has been the closest match to all of this.
Yes, I know that you like either one of these guys.
Nevertheless, take a moment to think about which one of them gives you the closest thing to that sense.
A feeling that you have known him forever.
Whenever you talk to him, whether you are on a lunch break or in a hurry somewhere, the sound of his voice makes you feel as though you are sitting in your living room, safe, comfortable, and cozy.
He warms your heart.
Yes, it is early on.
Nevertheless, you have had several conversations with these two men thus far.
Surely, one of them has either given you this feeling or has given you the impression that the potential is there.
Since you are the one who is canceling this date, make sure you take responsibility.
Apologize for the cancelation, and immediately give him a definitive day and time that you are available to go on a date with him.
By apologizing, and quickly following that up with a definitive day and time you are available to go on a date with him, you convey a message to him that you are serious about meeting him.
This encourages him to accept your offer.
Even if he won’t be available for the day and time that you have suggested, he is inspired to tell you when he is, and sets that day and time with you.
Done.
You now get to go on a date with your first choice, with a clear conscience, and your second choice gets to look forward to the date that has been rescheduled.