It’s a turnoff to guys when a girl is too clingy.

This happens when a girl becomes emotionally attached to a guy as he is courting her.

She isn’t all that aware that she is doing it when it occurs because she is so wrapped up in how she feels about the guy.

Avoid becoming clingy with a guy, especially in the early stages of courtship.

Once a guy gets a sense that a girl is being clingy, it gives him a preview to what she would be like as a girlfriend.

He doesn’t like what he is seeing.

The thought that you are going to be a girlfriend who is constantly hounding him about why he didn’t respond to your text message for hours, or why you were talking to some girl that you have a platonic relationship with, is bound to grate on his nerves.

He doesn’t want this.

His ideal girlfriend is one who doesn’t give him grief.

This would be a girl that is so secure in herself that she never gets clingy as she develops stronger emotional feelings for him as he is courting her.

This is what he wants.

Once he is at the receiving end of a girl that is being the opposite of this, in being clingy, he is going to want out.

This means that he isn’t going to keep courting you.

It’s a turnoff to guys when a girl questions his authority too.

This is where she is emasculating him, constantly second-guessing what he says and going against it.

To a guy, this makes him feel as though he is being robbed of his manhood.

When said girl challenges him, it gives him yet another preview of what the girl would be like if he were to make her his girlfriend.

He worries that she would humiliate him in front of friends and family when she challenges his authority, disrespecting him in the process.

He worries that one on one moments with her at home will be filled with lots of fights as she questions his authority.

Guys don’t like being disrespected in this manner.

The girl doesn’t necessarily understand that she is emasculating the guy.

She has always second-guessed and questioned the authority of guys she has dated in the past, and they have let her do it.

These were weak men who let her get away with this behavior because they were happy to have a girlfriend, and were reluctant to lose her as a girlfriend in renouncing her behavior.

So, she was never shown that this is bad behavior that emasculates a man.

Eventually, this catches up to you.

You finally meet a guy who is extremely secure in his masculinity, and won’t tolerate the idea of being with a girl who disrespects and disregards his authority.

That is when you end up getting ditched while he is in the early stages of courting you.

Respect is everything to men who are confident in their masculinity.

A girl who doesn’t give him respect is a girl that isn’t worth his time.