In leaving your text message on seen for two weeks, she is intent on making you realize how serious the issue it.

Two weeks is a long period of time to keep you on seen.

She wants you to worry about what is happening, and the implications of it.

Think back to what upset her in the first place.

The last argument you had with her was the straw that broke the camel’s back.

Prior to this, there were weeks of complaints.

These complaints went unresolved, and that is what led to the final argument.

She got fed up, believing that you weren’t taking her complaints seriously.

What was she complaining about for all those weeks?

Once you pinpoint what it is, take responsibility for it, and if you believe her complaints about it warranted, fix it.

After putting in the work to fix it, don’t grab your phone excitedly, intent on texting her a message about the changes you have made.

This comes off as though the only reason why you finally made this adjustment to your life was to get her to text message you back.

This is a turn off to her.

Rather, use your mutual friends to get the word out.

Common complaints women have about men they are romantically involved with often revolve around bad habits.

This is where the man is liking pictures of attractive women on social media, not holding a job, not being social, keeping a dirty home, etc.

Let’s pick out one of these examples.

That of keeping a dirty home.

Take action to fix this issue by completely cleaning your home, and maintaining that cleanliness moving forward.

Once you have done this, you are now ready to use your mutual friends to get the word out.

Invite your mutual friends over to do activities with you, such as playing video games, watching a TV show, cooking dinner, celebrating a friend’s birthday, etc.

This gives them an opportunity to see how clean your home is.

As they come over to your home to engage in a variety of activities in the coming weeks, and it remains clean, they are inclined to inform her about this significant change in the foreseeable future.

This happens organically, as they are hanging out with her or having a conversation with her.

It’s much better they tell her organically about the changes you have made, and without any prompting from you.

Coaxing them to put in a good word for you about the changes you have made, makes it seem as though the reason why you have cleaned out your home and maintained it, is to get her to text you back.

She picks up on this, and thinks that you are tricking her.

This makes her that much more resolute to not reply to your text message.

Avoid this by letting your mutual friends talk to her about the changes you have made in your cleanliness organically.

As she hears accounts from them over the coming weeks about the changes you have made, her angst towards you lessens.

Believing you have demonstrated authenticity in fixing the issue, she decides to reply to the message that has been stuck on seen for weeks.