A girlfriend that is interested in another guy isn’t as love hungry in her relationship with you.
She isn’t telling you that she loves you as much as she once did.
Girls are auditory in their love language, stimulated by what they hear.
When a girlfriend tells her boyfriend that she loves him, she is stimulated by the sound of the words coming out of her mouth, and hearing her boyfriend echo those words by telling her that he loves her too.
When a girlfriend isn’t telling you that she loves you as frequently as she once did, nor asking you whether you love her, this is significant.
She is showing that she doesn’t care too much to hear it.
Even when a girl has been in a relationship for a while, she still wants to hear the words.
She wants to hear herself say that she loves her boyfriend, and to hear him say that he loves her.
This never goes away, as long as she is in love with him.
Once she starts losing feelings for you, she isn’t all that concerned about hearing that you love her.
When your girlfriend is interested in another guy, she is getting her emotional needs met by that guy.
Not all of them quite yet.
But, a good number of them.
Have you observed that she isn’t laughing at your jokes all that much?
Girls love to laugh.
This is yet another element to their love language.
Laughing makes her feel good, and puts her in an elevated mood.
When she isn’t laughing at your jokes any longer, or all that much, she isn’t stimulated by them anymore.
Meaning, another guy that is a frequent fixture of her life, whether it be at work, school, her favorite coffee shop, the local gym, etc., is fulfilling this emotional stimulation.
A woman’s desire to be physically close to a guy is yet an additional element to her love language.
Has her desire to be physically close to you reduced?
While hanging out with you at home, have you detected that instead of sitting next to you and putting her head to your chest, she is sitting on a separate seat and fixated on her smartphone?
When this occurs with frequency, she doesn’t care for your physical affection.
This is never good.
Even a girlfriend who is always on her smartphone when she is hanging out at home with her boyfriend, does so while sitting next to her boyfriend, soaking in his physical affection.
But when you keep catching her perpetually scrolling over the screen on her smartphone, while sitting on a separate seat from you, her body language is indicating that she doesn’t need to be physically close to you, nor does she require your attention.
Her attention is on her smartphone, and that is enough for her.
What are the chances that she is brazenly scrolling over the social media page of the guy you suspect she likes?
The guy that is now fulfilling a significant amount of her emotional needs.
Those chances are strong.
A girlfriend that exhibits these behaviors is losing feelings for her boyfriend.
She hasn’t necessarily cheated on her boyfriend physically.
But, she is cheating on him emotionally, or is on the precipice of doing so with another guy.