There are a significant number of people who have had sex on a first date with someone.

Much of it has to do with the type of relationship they are looking for at the time.

Unsurprisingly, people who are seeking a casual relationship, are far more open to sleeping with someone on the first date.

In this scenario, what matters most is sexual chemistry.

There is no intent to pursue a long-term relationship, or see the person again in some instances, which makes it easier to throw caution to the wind and have sex on the first date, if the sexual chemistry is palpable.

It’s a good idea to know what you are looking for and seek out the same in someone else.

Sadly, there are men who deceive women who are seeking long-term relationships into thinking that they want the same, so that they open these women up to the idea of having sex with them on a first date.

He takes her to a bar or restaurant, intent on getting her inebriated enough to persuade her to have sex with him.

Needless to say, this is appalling.

It makes the guy out to be a jerk and gives the woman an experience she ends up regretting.

Despite the fact that as a man you want to get laid, like any other red-blooded male, it doesn’t pay to lie your way into a woman’s pants.

Believe it or not, in this modern era, there are far more women open to the idea of casual sex as soon as on the first date if the sexual chemistry is there, than there has ever been in history.

Gone are the days of old where the only way you were taking a woman out on a first date was with a chaperone in accompaniment.

You can imagine how few times there was ever any sex on the first date in those Victorian times.

That isn’t the case anymore, and thanks to the advent of dating apps, there are far more women who are open to the idea of having sex on a first date than ever before.

Sleeping with someone on the first date is fine, as long as you are on the same page with each other.

It is when you have used subterfuge to trick a woman into believing that you are interested in more than sex from her, that sex on a first date is no longer fine.

This being said, there are moments where two people who are seeking a long-term relationship have sex on a first date too.

These cases are obviously less frequent than that of two people looking for a casual sexual encounter or friends with benefits.

Whenever sex happens on a first date with two people that are seeking a committed relationship, it tends to be accidental.

In other words, neither one was planning to end up in bed with each other by the end of the first date.

Thereby, it’s a shock to them when they realize that they have ended up in bed together.

The thing is, these folks were so yearning for a release.

They most likely haven’t been intimate in a while and have struggled to meet people that were romantically compatible to them.

Upon finally meeting each other after months or years of celibacy, and connecting with each other on a spiritual and physical level, their primal desires get the best of them and they end up in bed together at the end of the first date.

Nothing wrong with having sex on a first date in circumstances like this.

After months or years of failure in finding someone compatible and having to force celibacy on themselves, it’s no wonder they can’t keep their hands off of each other by the end of the first date.

It wasn’t planned, it just happened, and there is no need to feel guilty about it.