If Personality Matters Most To Women, Why Do I Get Rejected Before I Have Even Introduced Myself?

If Personality Matters Most To Women, Why Do I Get Rejected Before I Have Even Introduced Myself?You are yet to introduce yourself before getting rejected, which means it has to do with poor outward presentation.

Your outward presentation is in reference to how you are presenting yourself physically, and the attitude you are exuding.

Unfortunately, you are already expecting these women to reject you before you have even introduced yourself.

When you have this negative attitude, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that destroys your confidence.

Confidence is the key personality trait that women adore in men and you are lacking it in spades.

How often do you walk up to these women with confidence?

The truth is, you rarely walk up to these women with confidence, much in part due to a powerful awareness that they are already primed to reject you.

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Women are extremely good at picking up on a guy’s aura or vibration.

When she gets a strong perception that you are short on confidence, she is already cringing as you approach her.

How can she not?

You are hesitantly meandering towards her with your shoulders slumped, eyes averted, and a fidgety general disposition.

She already knows that you are low on confidence before you have said a word.

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This is why you get the sense that these women have already rejected you before you have introduced yourself.

Does any of this sound like you?

Are you walking up to these women with weak body language?

Weak body language is enough to turn her off.

Besides confidence and how it affects your outward presentation, there is a different factor that bears mentioning.

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How you are physically groomed and dressed.

Just because personality matters to women doesn’t mean that you should ignore how you present yourself physically.

Regardless of whether you have a face that only a mother could love, you make up for it with women when you take the time to make yourself look presentable.

When was the last time you had a good haircut that complimented your face?

How attentive are you to facial grooming?

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Have you cleaned and cut your nails recently?

Are you applying the right skin care products on your skin?

By the same token, how you are dressed is pertinent.

Are you wearing the same old unfashionable clothes?

One of which includes the sweatshirt your mother got you for Christmas a few years ago?

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You are making this so much harder on yourself when you don’t take care of your outward presentation.

Girls appreciate a guy who takes pride in his outward presentation.

It doesn’t mean that you have to be walking around in expensive designer clothing.

But she wants to see that you took the time to dress yourself that morning and you are wearing season-appropriate clothing.

As far as colors, women love to see men wearing red, purple, and blue.

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As far as clothing, women love it when men wear fitting pants that aren’t too baggy, a fitting t-shirt or a button-down with folded sleeves.

As for shoes, you can’t go wrong wearing classic leather dress shoes, Chelsea boots, oxfords, or loafers.

Investing in a brand new wardrobe and wearing those new clothes and accessories goes a long way in making you feel much more confident as a person too.

Unsurprisingly, it all comes right back around to the most important personality trait that women look for in a man, confidence.

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