Don’t beat about the bush when you propose a first meeting to a girl.

Boldly and directly ask her to meet you for an activity.

That is how you start the next conversation you have with her.

Rather than talking to her for an indeterminate amount of time, waiting for the right moment to do it, do it immediately.

Don’t overthink this.

Plenty of guys spend too much time waiting for the right moment to propose a first meeting to a girl as they are having a conversation with her.

Unfortunately, the more time he spends waiting for an opportune time to propose a first meeting to her while he is in a conversation with her, the less likely that opportune time presents itself.

It’s unlikely that the girl is going to blatantly tell you to ask her out.

You have to take that step without waiting for her permission.

Waiting for her permission is a massive turnoff, as it makes you seem weak.

Start the next conversation you have with her with a succinct proposal for a first meeting.

The first meeting is where you get to talk each other and determine whether there is romantic chemistry.

Proposing an activity that isn’t too ostentatious or showy for a first meeting is ideal.

This keeps you from coming off as though you are trying too hard to impress her, which risks turning her off.

Proposing to meet at a coffee shop is apropos.

The atmosphere at a coffee shop is laidback enough that she isn’t instantly worried about a huge and noisy crowd as she considers your proposal.

A coffee shop is peaceful, quiet, and safe.

Once again, do not go overboard with the activity that you propose for a first meeting, motivated by a premature desire to impress her.

This has a tendency to backfire.

For example, by proposing to meet at a concert for a first meeting, she is promptly thinking about the long lines she is about to be in, as she makes her way into the arena or stadium with you.

This thought alone is already turning her off.

On top of that, she is thinking about how loud the venue is.

She is already imagining having to scream into your ear just to get you to hear what she is saying.

And vice versa.

She is thinking about all the bodies that are bumping into her in places they shouldn’t as she watches the concert.

Needless to say, proposing a first meeting at a concert has her swiftly turned off.

A proposal to meet at a concert primarily works when you have built a rapport with her over the course of several weeks.

She is far more likely to forgive having to wait in a long line at a stadium or get bumped in areas she shouldn’t, when she has already gone on multiple good dates with you beforehand, and grown to like you.

At this stage, you have scored a number of brownie points with her, making her less likely to cast you aside on account of a loud and cramped date at a concert venue.

You aren’t there yet.

It’s early.

Propose a first meeting that is elementary, so that you don’t fill her with anxiety.

A coffee shop or brunch are great first dates.

The atmosphere at either venue is laidback and uncrowded, and this keeps her from feeling any undue pressure upon hearing your proposal.