Women have had lofty expectations of men since the dawn of civilization.

This isn’t a new phenomenon.

These expectations haven’t changed with the rise of women in modern day society.

As women have risen in modern day society, their expectations of men have risen in correlation with their own success.

Women have a natural affinity to date up.

This is hypergamy.

Hypergamy is the practice of dating someone who is of a higher social, educational, economical, and sexual value.

Nowadays, there are far more successful women in everyday society than there were in the old days where women were primarily expected to stay home and raise the kids.

In modern day society, there are women in elevated positions.

When a woman achieves this level of success in her finances, education, professional career, etc., she has a desire to date a man who is more successful than she is.

This is where hypergamy sets in.

Women have been practicing hypergamy since the dawn of man.

In the early days, the man who brought back the food from the hunt was the one who captivated the women in the village.

He was the one that they selected to mate with.

These women were fully aware that he was the alpha of the tribe and wanted to secure a strong legacy by partnering with him and birthing his offspring.

This mindset hasn’t changed in modern day times.

Men and women don’t think alike in how they select who they want to date.

A man looks for a woman’s youth, beauty, and fertility.

A women looks for a man’s ability to provide and protect.

Even though she is successful in modern day society, she wants a man that is more successful.

She has an innate desire to be with a man that is a better provider than she is, irrespective of how financially well-off she is.

This is her biological imperative.

Today, more women graduate from college than men do.

This means that they are getting into professional careers that have an upward trajectory for career advancement.

Unlike the old days where women married in their late teens, women of today are getting married in their late twenties.

This means that she has spent years in the corporate world climbing up the ladder and earning more.

By the time she is ready for marriage in her late twenties, she has a senior position in her career and financial solvency.

For a modern day woman like this, she wants no less than her equal in who she chooses to date and settle down with, but prefers her superior.

Prior to modern day times, a woman her age was already settled as a mother, with multiple kids, and a husband with an average job.

That was good enough for her.

Not in modern day times.

The modern day woman who has all of these accomplishments has high expectations in who she wants to date.

After all, she has put in years of work to build herself up to where she is now.

The question is, do you have what it takes to be chosen by her?