When you are less interested, you don’t act as though you want the person so much.

A woman takes it for granted or becomes complacent when she knows a guy is really interested in her.

When a guy is really interested in a girl, he often ruins everything when he becomes overeager.

He tries too hard to impress her or get her to laugh.

Sadly, he is so caught up on how much he likes her, he over compliments her.

Unbeknownst to him, all of the attention he is bestowing on her is getting her to feel too complacent with him.

There is no drama or tension.

He is far too obvious in showing how much he likes her.

This perception is not much of a turn on to most women.

The guy is far too predictable and eager.

It gives her a sense that he doesn’t have a life of his own nor dating options.

Think back on your life.

Think back to the moments where you have been really interested in a woman and it didn’t work out.

What were you doing?

You were calling or texting her incessantly, giving her far too many compliments, agreeing to everything she said, accepting her rude behavior without admonishing her, etc.

Whenever you have been interested in a woman, you have been too overeager to please.

This is why you have struggled to get girls to like you or take you seriously for any length of time.

Think back to the girls from your past that you weren’t interested in, but who were interested in you.

How did you behave with those girls?

You didn’t care much for her.

You weren’t trying to please her or get her attention.

Whenever she attempted to talk to you, you kept it fairly short and she had to do all the work to keep the conversation going.

Sometimes, you consciously made an effort to avoid her whenever you saw her in public.

There were moments where she went out of her way to dress nice for you, but you barely acknowledged her presence in these moments, let alone gave her a compliment.

Whenever she wanted to meet up, you canceled or came up with an excuse.

You weren’t interested in her, and your actions reflected that.

It is this attitude that compelled her to go after you, making her more interested in you than she had ever been.

In general, it is this attitude that makes girls become more interested in a guy.

Adopting the same nonchalant attitude with a girl that you are interested in, is what often gets that girl to become more interested in you.

When you don’t really care all that much about them, they start caring more about you.

This isn’t a hard and fast rule.

It isn’t the only way to get girls to become more interested in you.

Nevertheless, girls do have a tendency to respond to jerk-like behavior if done right.

Girls like it when a guy comes off as a challenge.

A guy who isn’t all over them is exactly that.

When you show that you have a life of your own, as opposed to spending an exorbitant amount of your time attempting to impress a girl, it sets you apart from almost every other guy.

She notices that you aren’t vying for her approval and this intrigues her.

Having an attitude that makes you seem less interested, does give you an upper hand with a significant swath of women.