It does turn a girl off when a guy doesn’t talk or text her again until a day before a date he asked her out to, after setting it up a week in advance.

It’s alright when it has only been a couple days since their last conversation.

When it has been a week since their last conversation, it does become an issue.

Some women are turned off enough to make new plans.

Which means that they are less likely to go on the date.

But there are women who still choose to go on the date.

However, she has spent that week wondering why you haven’t texted or called her since asking her on a date.

Although this means that you are in her thoughts to an extent, it isn’t for the right reasons.

Even though this particular woman chooses to go on the date, she does so with a degree of doubt.

The problem with this approach to courting a woman is that it tends to backfire on you.

If the woman shows up on the date, you see that as a sign that this behavior is okay.

On account of this, what do you think you are doing in reference to the next date?

You are doing the exact same thing.

You set up the date a week in advance, she says yes to the date, and you don’t talk or text her again until a day before the date.

While she gave you a pass the first time around, she is less likely to be so accommodating the second time around.

As far as she is concerned, in asking her out on a second date, you considered the first date a success and deem her worthy to be courted.

She expects that while courting her, you call or text her fairly regularly to get to know her.

She gave you a pass the first time around when you didn’t talk or text her again until the day before the date.

She told herself that you were playing it safe.

You didn’t want to waste too much time talking to her over the week without knowing whether there was face to face chemistry.

For that reason, she let it go and went on the first date with you.

In asking her out on a second date, her mindset has totally changed.

She sees this as a sign that you like her and want to court her.

By choosing not to talk or text her again until a day before the second date, you give her the impression that you aren’t taking her seriously.

In other words, you aren’t seriously courting her.

This makes her think that there are several girls you are taking out on dates and prioritizing over her.

What is she supposed to think?

Her imagination is running wild, envisioning you taking out multiple girls during the week, too busy to send her a text or give her a phone call.

This vision forces her to put her guard up.

A girl doesn’t want to be hurt, especially this early.

Should she decide to take a chance on going out on a second date with you, she keeps her guard up, reluctant to open herself up to you emotionally.

The third time you ask her on a date a week in advance without talking in-between is when she has finally had enough.

She is either complaining about it, or not replying to your message.

It isn’t worth it to put a woman through this.

All you are doing is making it that much harder for her to relax and open herself up to you.

Instead of not talking or calling her until a day before a date, contact her every second or third day.

You don’t have to get into a long-winded conversation with her, especially while you are in the midst of the first few dates.

Contacting her every second or third day gives her the impression that you are taking her seriously.

This relaxes her, giving her the courage to let her guard down emotionally.