Why Do I Seem To Attract Shy Guys Every Single Time I Go Out?

Why Do I Seem To Attract Shy Guys Every Single Time I Go Out?Your body language is friendly and inviting.

This makes it less intimidating for a shy guy to approach you.

He isn’t as worried about getting humiliated or cruelly rejected.

Shy guys aren’t all that open to approaching a girl.

However, when it is a girl that gives off an inviting energy, a few risk it.

The open and friendly body language that you exude makes shy guys feel more comfortable with the idea of approaching you.

Think about your guy friends.

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A good number of them are shy by nature, but found themselves comfortable with the idea of befriending you.

That had to do with the open and friendly body language that you were exuding when they first met you.

The shy guys that are attracted to you, feel the same aura that your shy guy friends did when they initially befriended you.

The truth is, a lot of the shy guys who are your platonic friends are actually attracted to you.

It’s just that they have never had the courage to tell you they do.

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The shy guys who are attracted to you and make a move on you have a higher degree of confidence.

Though shy, they have had some relationship experience, with a girlfriend or two in their pasts, and this is what gives them the confidence to make a move on you.

Yes, it still takes a lot for him to make that initial move.

When he does, it’s easy to misconstrue him for extroverted, until you realize that he is indeed shy.

He isn’t as extemporaneous in his speech, and the conversation with him has moments that are stilted or awkward.

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Nevertheless, it isn’t new.

After all, you seem to only attract shy guys.

To reiterate, much of this has to do with your open and friendly body language.

Besides this, the fact that you aren’t crazy beautiful, is a factor.

Shy guys are extremely intimidated by women who are crazy beautiful and won’t approach them if their lives depended on it.

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Being that you aren’t crazy beautiful, and mirror what his ex-girlfriend looks like, it’s easier for him to make a move on you.

There is a familiarity in your physical appearance and demeanor that makes him feel less intimidated to approach you.

Furthermore, where you are located whenever you attract these shy guys is pertinent.

It’s unlikely that you are attracting these shy guys at bars and nightclubs.

Shy guys aren’t big on going to these venues.

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No, it’s more likely that you frequent venues that shy guys have a propensity to go to.

Think about all the venues where you have been approached by a shy guy.

You have an affinity for doing activities that shy guys gravitate to.

What activities do you do on your free time?

Do you partake in bookstores, libraries, arcades, science and gaming expos, church, workshops, community classes, school organizations, trivia nights, nature hikes, art or music classes, art galleries, bird watching, animal shelters, online dating apps, etc.

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These are environments that shy guys inhabit.

If you are usually in these environments whenever a shy guy makes a move on you, it’s no wonder they do.

Shy guys are more inclined to approach a woman when she is in an environment he is comfortable in and familiar with.

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