When You Have A Quandary On Which Female To Choose To Date

When You Have A Quandary On Which Female To Choose To DateIt’s a quandary that has given you sleepless nights.

There are two females in your life that you are attracted to and getting along with.

They are amazing and you love being around them.

Every time you are hanging out with any one of them, you have a great time and don’t want it to end.

Yet, you know that you can’t date both of them, even though the thought has crossed your mind.

You are aware that you would only be able to get away with dating them both for so long.

And it would not be respectful to either one to put them through such an ordeal.

With this wisdom, you know that you have to choose between the two for the sake of long-term dating.

This is where you have a quandary.

Who to choose?

Firstly, figure out what type of relationship you are looking for at this time in your life and moving forward.

Are you looking for a long-term relationship or something short term?

Something short-term is an easy decision.

Pick the one that you have the most fun with, irrespective of how you connect emotionally.

That being said, should you determine that you are looking for a long-term relationship, you have to strongly consider the next question.

Which one gets on your nerves the least?

In other words, whose quirks are you more capable of tolerating.

This is critical.

If you are to be with an woman for a long-term relationship, you have to know whether you can tolerate her quirks and idiosyncrasies.

Even though it seems like a small thing, it isn’t.

Ignoring this is to your detriment, as you can only brush off her quirks for so long before they begin to irritate you.

This is when you are suddenly getting short-tempered with her over minor issues, and before you know it, you are having full-on fights with her.

Which one of these females has the least amount of annoying quirks.

This is a start, and it does put you on a path to choosing the right female to date.

Next, which one of these females gets along best with your friends and family.

A long-term girlfriend is going to be among your friends and family on a fairly regular basis.

If she doesn’t get along with them, it becomes increasingly difficult for you to do activities with her with them present.

This puts a strain on your relationship.

Eventually, you become hesitant to bring her around your friends and family.

This leads to resentment, and soon after, fights.

The same must be said for you too.

Do you get along and like her friends and family?

Of the two, which one has friends and family that you get along with and like the most.

Remember, in a long-term relationship, you are constantly exposed to her friends and family.

If you don’t get along with or like them much, your relationship with her suffers.

Finally, which one of these females accepts you the most.

Basically, which one of them lets you be yourself without any fear of judgment.

This means that you never have to put up a front with her or play a part.

She accepts you for you, with all of your flaws.

Hiding your flaws from a girl leads to catastrophe, as she is bound to discover them down the line.

Which one of these females makes you so comfortable that you have never felt the need to hide anything about your personality, background, beliefs and lifestyle.

This is the female you choose.