A girl that tells you that she is “just always busy” isn’t interested in going out on a date with you.

No matter how busy a person is, they can make time for someone they are interested in.

Even if it is a half hour here or there.

To tell you that she is “just always busy” is her way of informing you that she has no inclination to make time for you.

This was a rejection.

She sugarcoated it by telling you that she would love to go out with you, and gave you further hope by stating that she wants to work something out.

This is nonsense.

She has no intention to work anything out.

A girl that honestly likes you, makes it easy for you to set up a date with her, and does everything in her power to make a date happen.

If you suggest a day to meet that she knows she is unavailable, she suggests a different date of availability.

Think about the girls that you have dated in the past who ended up becoming significant others.

How many of them told you that they were busy when you asked them out on a date?

How many of them made it feel as though you were tirelessly working to set up a seemingly impossible meeting with the President?

None of them.

These girls made it easy on you.

Whenever they were unavailable, they always gave you an alternate date that they were available to meet with you on a date.

Don’t let her words deceive you.

She was letting you down easy.

She thinks you are a nice guy and didn’t want to tell you what she was really thinking about going out on a date with you.

This is where she excuses her lie, telling herself that she wasn’t direct in telling you that she wasn’t interested so as not to hurt your feelings.

None of this changes the fact that she wasn’t truthful in her response to you.

Deep down, she knows that it is so much easier for her to give you an ambiguous answer.

This keeps her from being the villain.

Yes, it matters to her that she feels good about herself.

Notwithstanding, she is hoping that you don’t make another attempt to ask her out on a date.

She wants you to forget that you asked her out.

She doesn’t want to have to be in this position again, where she has to find another excuse to avoid going out on a date with you, or have to come clean and tell you that she doesn’t like you.

The truth is, she doesn’t want to work out a date with you.

You are to be commended for having the courage to ask for her number, and consequently asking her out on a date.

To this extent, give yourself a pat on the back.

This takes courage and plenty of guys don’t have it.

Nonetheless, this woman isn’t interested in you.

Use the courage you demonstrated in asking this woman out, to approach the next woman.

As long as you keep asking women out, some are destined to say yes to going out with you, and mean it.