Is It Wrong To Still Want To Be With A Woman Who Isn’t Very Smart?

Is It Wrong To Still Want To Be With A Woman Who Isn't Very Smart?There is nothing inherently wrong with this.

Although she isn’t very smart, there are alternate qualities about her that you appreciate.

She doesn’t have the intellect to have a deeply intellectual conversation with you, but you don’t care about that.

While for many, intellectual conversation is an important factor in attraction, that has no bearing on what you like in this woman.

The initial hesitation you feel about wanting to be with a woman who isn’t very smart is in how you are judged by people.

These are the people in your life and those outside of it.

Your friends, family, coworkers, and strangers at large.

There is the thought of what it would be like to be at a social event with this woman and several of your friends, family members, or coworkers present.

Seeing that she isn’t very smart, there is a fear that she would struggle to maintain intellectual conversations with these people.

That would be a reflection on you and you can only imagine how swiftly you are going to be judged by them.

Those judgmental eyes are suddenly directed at you wherever you so happen to be in the room.


Whilst you know that such a moment would be awkward, you wish that they weren’t so quick to judge.

After all, there are various elements to her persona that you find appealing.

It’s no wonder you are grappling with this dilemma.

Know that, at the end of the day, you are the one who gets to live your life.

Your family, friends, coworkers, and society at large aren’t the ones who get to date this woman.

You are.

In this vain, you are the sole person who knows what you are attracted to.

Look back on your history in dating.

Were your previous girlfriends smart or not?

If they weren’t, how did those relationships go?

Were you upset over the fact that they weren’t smart?

Were you negatively affected by how your friends, family, coworkers, and society at large judged you for it?

If these past relationships were unfulfilling to you on the basis of a dearth of intelligence in the girls you dated, you will go through the same ordeal should you choose to date this woman.

Ask yourself about the type of relationship you are looking for.

Are you looking for a long-term relationship or a short-term relationship?

If you are looking for a long-term relationship, it would be wise to take account of her intelligence.

If the relationships you had in the past suffered and barely lasted on account of a lack of smarts in said girlfriends, dating yet another girl who isn’t very smart will lead to the same end result.

Basically, you would be doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results.

Should you be looking for a short-term relationship, you obviously don’t have to be aggrieved over her smarts.

Clearly, a relationship like this would be primarily based on physical attraction and not much else.

Should you want to date a woman for the long term, this is a different story.

Learn from the mistakes you made in the previous girlfriends you have had who weren’t very smart.

Instead of seeking out a girlfriend in the same locations that you met your past girlfriends, seek her out somewhere different.

These are locations where smart women occupy such as bookstores, libraries, universities, coffee shops, academic conventions, etc.

These are women who would match your level of intelligence, increasing the odds that you have a long and healthy relationship with the one you have the best chemistry with.