A guy that only texts you when he’s at work is using you to relieve boredom.

Whenever he is texting you, he is getting a break from staring at his computer screen.

It’s a distraction he welcomes, as it keeps him from falling asleep, or keeps him company while he is on break.

You are someone he has relegated as fun to talk to, but not all that interesting.

This doesn’t mean that he is dating someone else.

Believe it or not, there are men with exceedingly active lifestyles.

The moment he gets off work, his active lifestyle takes over.

He isn’t thinking about you.

He is far more concerned with getting to the gym, picking up his laundry, stopping by his favorite Italian deli and pizzeria, picking his dog up from a doggy daycare, taking a shower when he gets home, getting on his computer to play solitaire with his friends, washing the dishes, etc.

Basically, there is so much he already has planned out for his day.

Being that you aren’t someone that he is all that intrigued by, he isn’t compelled to text you while he is outside of work.

His life outside of work is replete with activities he prioritizes over you.

With you, he hasn’t felt a romantic spark.

This has kept him from wanting to pursue anything further with you besides texting you while he is at work.

As aforesaid, this doesn’t mean that he’s dating someone else.

At least, not seriously.

If you happened to meet this guy on a dating app or social media, it’s likely he is actively meeting women on dates.

It’s unlikely that he is dating any one of them exclusively, as this would make it far less likely he would be texting you at work.

Irrespective of whether he is dating someone else or not, none of this changes the reality that he isn’t all that into you.

There is a reason why he is yet to ask you out on a date.

Sadly, it’s time you stop texting him.

To keep texting him is to make yourself susceptible to falling for him.

Being a good talker, he knows how to keep you entertained when he texts you while he is at work.

It won’t take long for any girl to fall for his words and develop feelings for him as a consequence.

Once the feelings develop, you trick yourself into believing that it is only a matter of time before he texts you outside of his work hours, or ask you out on a date.

Each and every day that goes by bears that aspiration.

Is it happening this week?

The next?

Before you know it, you have been texting this guy for months, and he isn’t any closer to texting you when he is outside of work, nor asking you out on a date.

This isn’t worth your time, effort, and emotions.

A guy doesn’t require an inordinate amount of time to know whether he likes a girl enough to want to woo her.

He has texted you enough by now to know whether you are that girl.

You aren’t.

Stop texting him before you become too emotionally involved.