So I have a harmless crush on a much older married man (I a 30 he is probably 60). I am also engaged to be married. I told my fiance that I found this gentleman attractive because that’s how harmless of a crush it is and he told him! Now this man who used to be friendly and talk to me doesn’t say much and just stares at me. He was walking by and locked eyes with me, so I smiled to try and be friendly and he just kept eye contact, but didn’t smile, so I got nervous and looked away. I don’t understand why he won’t talk to me anymore, he used to be great for conversation.