Why doesn't he talk to me until I ignore him?

[Veronica]

I like this guy at the PT place I go to, recently, I started a conversation with him about our injuries and I felt like we had a good conversation. The next session I saw him I asked how his knee was doing and he said he was getting better. When I would pass by him while we were both doing different exercises he then seemed like he went out of his way to avoid eye contact. I then thought, oh no, he probably has a girlfriend, I’ll slow my roll on this. He then seemed to be trying to make eye contact with me but at this point I was ignoring him. He then came up to me and asked, “so are YOU getting better?” I was thinking about it and said, mmmm, not really. And he said I hope you start to feel better. This is confusing, why did he wait for me to ignore him to come talk to me?

[Joules]

Hmm maybe he didn’t want to get caught looking at you? Give it some time and see if he keeps doing the same thing.

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