Why does he talk about breaking up every argument and stay mad at me for 2 days?

[alisha]

We always argue about him going out becuase I would rather him stay home. I don’t really think my 40 yo husband should be at the club but I do trust him. He would just like me to be like sure go out have fun but I want to state my real feelings. The fact that he makes comments on how our relationship is horrible is just crazy including everything else he says and then appoligizes for it later 2 days later. I just don’t know what to do anymore.

[Gypsy]

I’m in a similar boat, but we aren’t married. I feel like in a marriage you should state your feelings and try to compromise. Instead of him going out all of the time, maybe have a day for him that’s “his day” where you don’t bother him and he does what he wants. And try to express that you want to spend more time with him. I think when you argue he gets defensive and the only way he knows how to deal with it is to make rash remarks. I would say that you don’t like when he does that, be honest with him

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