When I’m with my girlfriend, my focus is on her and the moment and I do feel happiness. However, whenever I’m at home or just overall away from her I’m only thinking of the things that I don’t like about her and several reasons why I should break up with her. I’ll think of her flaws, the incompatibilities we have, future goals, and what exactly am I getting out of being with her besides a physical person to be with.
Is it wrong to always have thoughts of breaking up with my girlfriend when I’m not with her even if I’m happy when I’m with her?