Telling between boredom and disinterest

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Hi,

I recently met a girl and we really hit it off right away. Our backgrounds, passions, goals, experiences, etc. were all so well aligned and we had so much in common. We talked about personal things, goals, relationship things too, and then a particularly busy week came up for her where she had an 8 hour test and I basically let her just focus on that. However, the convos suddenly became so stale and dull and she wasn’t giving much after. Even after the test. Now, these are sure signs that she either found someone else, or moved on, but reading back the convos and picking up on hints, it seems she is really interested. I decided to not text her for a little bit to see if she actually wants to text me at all and she ended up texting me back but then right after that the convo died down again. I’m not sure what is going on. Do I pursue her? Is there something I’m missing here? Is she just going through something or is she uninterested?

Thanks

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