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This girl was an elementary school friend. Crushed her while in elementary. Went our separate ways. Saw her again (years ago) as an adult. We talked at the beach and she stroked my arm and flirted (it seemed like it)/pressed herself against me with her body fully against mine. Knew I was “excited” and attracted. I left because honestly I was in-part starving (long day didn’t even eat lunch) and in part nervous. We were facebook friends. Messaged her. No response for over 2 weeks. Was so upset left a nasty message and then blocked her. Never saw her again except once randomly public where see seemed scared and I was obviously angry and glared at her and left. This was obviously a while ago (when the message and arm stroking was). I was wondering why? Why stroke someone’s arm and be flirtatious and then nothing. I get ego. I get maybe I interpreted it wrong but it’s so upsetting. It feels like minds games and I was just played with. Still haven’t totally moved on. Any insight would be genuinely appreciated. Thanks.
Honestly it seems like there was something she was hiding. My guess is that maybe she was seeing someone at the time and she was just having one night of fun? I know it sucks. I’m sorry that happened to you but try not to be too harsh towards her. Then she might give you an explaination herself one day.
Anyone else have something they can add?
In the future send one message and if she doesn’t respond don’t send her another message or block her…. Don’t even unfriend her. Meditate and brush it off, act like it’s no big deal. If you bump into her just talk to her normaly and that’s that…. You may not end up dating her.
Here’s the thing though… If you start blocking girls the word may go round and other girls may find out and start acting strange around you.
Girls observe how you interact with others. If you handle these situations with class and are genuinely nice to others around you then other girls will notice and some of them may develop crushes on you 😉
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