Selfishness

[Tania]

I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. It seems like we mostly meet and do things when he wants to. I am usually the one agreeing to him and whenever I say something, he says no without any hesitation. I am not sure if I’m expecting to much from this relationship but i want someone who cares about what I am feeling and what I want to do and just not have a one sided relationship. We discuss this issue and he works on it for a week or so and then goes back to normal. Please help me and tell me what should I do? I love him and would love to make it work but I have been questioning our relationship a lot lately. We also broke up 3 times in a year. Something that bothers me the most is that one we broke up last time, he didn’t even listen to what I had to say and why I was breaking up and just said “ we are not compatible, sorry” and just cut me off with that sentence and that was it. Please please let me know what you think I should do?

[Jeff_Willy23]

Hi Tania!

It would be better if you just give him a bit of space. Let him miss you and then he might text you back or even call you to meet up again. From what you said, it seems he got a bit bored and is not feeling the spark anymore.

Good luck.

[Ciara]

I’d agree with what the person above said. Just give him some space, absence can often make someone realize what they had. Like the saying “You don’t miss your water until your well runs dry” but don’t sit around being sad about it. Do things you like to do, play with your pet, if you have one, pamper and spoil yourself at home, and just enjoy life😁

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