This person and I are in an On and Off relationship. We broke up for awhile, but end up getting back together cause we miss each other deeply. We love each other, and want to stay commited, but it’s hard. We been dating for about 4 month. Can you guys give any advice on how to fix this? Please, and thanks
On and off relationships means one or both people don’t like the other person enough to want to commit to each other. There needs to be mutual high level of interest in each other. A man should be a mystery, have a life outside of the relationship, and don’t over pursue the woman and make her feel like he has nothing to do but hang out with her. A woman should pursue the man and not act overly clingy. The woman should be playful and sensual and leave the man wanting more, don’t drive him away.