Hello, female here looking for opinions on a male coworker constantly looking at me. I started my job about a month ago and since then I have caught my coworker constantly looking at me, and when I look back at him he doesn’t look away and we end up staring at each other for a few seconds before I look away. I even see him looking my way from a long distance or if I’m walking towards his direction he is just staring at me. He even looks over at me to see if I am laughing at something funny. He doesn’t smile at me when I catch him looking unless something funny happened.
He does have a girlfriend but lately he’s been complaining about her and saying he’s not currently talking to her. I am not the type to go after someone in a relationship, but the amount of times I catch him staring at me is starting to make me curious as to why. I am a very shy and reserved person with not much experience with dating and flirting. I just want to know if he might find me attractive or if he’s just zoning out in my direction a lot. Just having an idea as to why he looks at me a lot is enough. I am not looking to catch him. Just the amount of times I catch him looking at me is a lot and is starting to drive me crazy as to why. Thanks for your opinions!