LONG: not sure if he’s interested or just friendly

[Kate]

Ok so my best friends older brother, who knows I am attracted to him, recently asked me a question that caught me off guard. I went to church with his family for Easter and we ended up sitting next to each other. We talked throughout mostly about his experience in the church and the people in the community. But we started talking about how cute these two little kids in front of us were and he looks at me and goes “do you want kids?” And I said yes, and he goes “how many?” And I tell him and then he looks at me and goes “me too but that’s the last thing on my mind.” Pauses and then says “I need a girlfriend first” and laughs

Ok. These are things I have noticed, but I’m not sure they mean much/what they mean
1. He teases and mocks me..but he also does this to our other friend who finds him attractive
2. He laughs at all of my jokes and if he notices that I made a face or find something interesting/not he will just grin at me
3. When everyone is laughing at something he will look directly to me and hold eye contact
4. If he is speaking to more than one person he will constantly look back and forth between me and the other people/person even if I’m not really in the conversation OR he will look at me when talking about something even if he’s not speaking directly to me

My problem is: this happened a few weeks ago and he hasn’t made a move

[Abby]

He could like you, or he could just be treating you like a sister… consider your his sisters best friend. But what are you doing being attracted to your best friends older brother??
That never goes good… but anyways he could just be one of those big flirts that doesn’t notice it. He could be doing these things, but really isn’t paying much attention to how it makes you feel. On the other hand, he could know you like him and is getting a kick out of it. I’m not sure about the full situation, but he might like you or it could just be how he acts.

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