My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. Things were great, recently I brought up our future together and marriage. He says he is not ready for marriage. I asked him to meet my parents. He doesn’t want to meet my parents. Previously he wanted to meet my parents but I wasn’t ready at that time. Now that I want to build a future with him, he seems distant. I also feel like I am not much of a priority in his life. He says he loves me and cares for me and sees future with me. But his actions are not much clear. I feel emotionally very disconnected with him. I don’t remember when was the last time he took me out on a date. I don’t remember when was the last time we spent some quality time without him checking on his phone or being distracted by something else.
We have been together for long so I feel like there is something still good about us, but I am having a hard time believing there is actually a future for us. What should I do? I am lost.