November 2, 2019 at 6:27 am #104538
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So there is this guy who is always teasing me. And I am teasing him. Other classmates even stareted to imitate us.
At some point he even said ‘If I get (I don’t know what character in a game) I will kiss KC’ -he seems nice, he was asked where and he answered where I allow him to
The thing is that a girl told me people talk behind my back. When I asked about him, she said he does talk, but just the way he does in front of me. I don’t really know what she meant, but in front of me, he just calls my name and says random things (like, *Good job, KC* when we randomly pass by each other) , compliments me, asks me something or winks. He did make fun of me once, but stoped when he saw how upset I was. I thought he might like me, but after I’ve heared he does the same behind my back I’m starting to think if he’s just mocking me.
I’ve heard him talking about me with other people before, but I thought he knew I could hear him and he just wanned attention.
What do you think?
Thank you and sorry if there is any lack of information !
(I love your job. Keep it up! 😊)November 3, 2019 at 1:35 am #104602
Hi Shy Teen,
Teasing can be a great sign of romantic interest.
However, in this particular instance, the teasing may only be for show.
Merely done to get you excited but with no real intent to take things any further than that.
Though he may compliment you from time to time and wink at you, he may simply be playing games at those moments.
Indeed, it does appear that he is mocking you to a certain extent.
He has even been brazen enough to talk about you to other people when you were within hearing distance.
All of this sounds like a guy who just doesn’t take you all that seriously.
He will banter with you but then turn around and make fun of you to other people behind your back.
This shows that he doesn’t have much respect for you.
A lack of respect would often indicate a lack of romantic interest.
He may tease you and even flirt with you on occasion.
However, he just does that for the momentary boost to his ego or the short-lived thrill.
It may not be wise to allow yourself to become too emotionally caught up on this guy.
A guy like this will only get more brazen and insensitive towards a person like you as time goes on.