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May 15, 2018 at 3:55 am #77095
Brenden
GuestThere is this girl that sits at my lunch table and I think we both like eachother but we are both shy. We both barley say anything to eachother in real life but we be texting a lot though. She had to ask me out to the movies since I was not making any moves but that got canceled due to me having work and the week after that she wanted me to go to the carnival with her and a few of her friends but that plan also got canceled. I just need a little bit of help with talking to her a lot more. By the way she knows that I have a crush on her.
May 21, 2018 at 4:21 pm #77119Chad Thundercock
GuestShe wants you to stop being shy with her. You’re going to have to figure out how you’re going to do that.
May 25, 2018 at 10:12 pm #77128Brenden
GuestIdk if she likes me tho. Idk if I’m just stupid and she giving me signs and I just can’t read them. My fear is messing up or rejection so that’s why I am shy around her.
May 26, 2018 at 2:53 pm #77130Chad Thundercock
GuestI understand… You don’t know what to do. If she does like you and you don’t ask her out she’ll eventually stop texting you or sitting next to you because she will feel awkward. I don’t know what you should do but am curious to know what you will do XD
May 27, 2018 at 8:31 pm #77132Brenden
GuestWell the school year just ended imma just try and ask her to do something with me like going to an amusement park or going to the movies or something. If she asked me out twice in less than 2 weeks I’m pretty sure she would be down to hang out if I ask her out, by the way when she asked me out she wanted to me to go to the carnival with her and her best friend and her best friends boyfriend so it would have been the 4 of us. She probably does like me to tbh because I remember I told her I had a little crush on her a while back when texting her and she tried asking me out a few weeks later and even came to one of my track races for support. Lol I just think we both shy and we both have to step out of our comfort zones so this summer that’s what’s going to have to happen.
June 11, 2018 at 3:46 pm #77200I wanna help
GuestAsk her if she wanted to come round to yours for dinner or something
Just slip it into the convo like “what are u having for dinner tonight?” [she answers] then you answer by saying (what you will be having) and then at the end of that text just ask if she would like to join
{I know it’s difficult as I am also extremely shy but I have a crush on this guy but I don’t know if he likes me it’s complicated because we basically haven’t talked}
June 11, 2018 at 3:46 pm #77201I wanna help
GuestGood luck!🤞👍
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