March 9, 2020 at 5:32 am #112294LaVaughnGuest
Hi good morning my question is this. I’m 40 something and recently started college I’m a widow of 4 years and is ready to start dating but is also scared. However there’s this bus driver that I’m attracted to that caught my attention when I caught him staring at me. At 1st I dismissed it but no matter where I sit he looks in that direction. When leaving the bus I would look in the mirror and he would watch me leave and I would keep eye contact say thank u. I constantly wear headphones so I did not know if he acknowledged me so the last time I saw him I took it off for the entire ride to see if he would say something to me when I’m leaving since I get off at the last stop. As usual he would watch me walk down the aisle (mind you I’m not the only one that gets off at the stop) I said my usual thank u (which I do with most bus drivers) and instead of saying you’re welcome which he did with other females at previous stops, he did a soft grunt like sound. His stares are intense especially when I’m leaving the bus with no smile on his face. I’m pretty sure you’re gonna tell me he isn’t interested which I’m fine with just need confirmation since I’ve been out of the game since I was 19.
Thanks so much for your assistance and advice in this matter and I look forward to a response. Stay blessedMarch 9, 2020 at 10:16 pm #112302LukeKeymaster
The constant staring may be an indication of attraction.
However, it is typically intense and without a smile because he is most likely not trying to give anything away.
Oftentimes, when a guy is this unwilling to do anything about all the staring that he is doing, he is either already in a relationship or he has a lot going on in his life that makes him feel unwilling to date.
He finds it hard to avoid watching you as you walk down the aisle on your way out because his eyes are naturally drawn to you.
However, he is unwilling and unlikely to make a move on you.
You may be a welcome distraction from whatever may be going on in his life that may be causing him stress.
He probably even looks forward to seeing you on the bus.
However, for him, that is as far as he would want things to go. He is just not at a place at this time in his life where he would want to go any further than staring at you.
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