If you’re not attracted to someone in the beginning, how long do you try until you are?

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    Samantha
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    I know a guy who is interested in me. He is nice and I would like to get to know him. But, I am not attracted to him. How long do I try until I am or is something like this a lost cause?

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    Luke
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    Hi Samantha,

    If physical attraction is very important to you, this is a lost cause.

    There are always exceptions, but they are rare.

    When there is absolutely no physical attraction whatsoever, it’s highly unlikely it will develop as you get to know him better.

    People often make the mistake of making themselves believe that it will, until they realize that it has been months now and they are still not attracted to the person.

    It’s best to simply be his friend and let him know that. This way, you don’t waste his time and yours.

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