hello, i like a girl in my class, when i text her question such as do you have any plans for this holiday she always answers and asks ‘how about you?’ and she sometimes expresses her feelings as well such as saying’ i’m excited for this trip.” But she replies my text really slowly, it usually takes a day or two for her to respond, so i am so confused
It may take her a day or two to respond to your texts because she isn’t prioritizing your messages.
This often means that she just sees you as a friend that she gets to chat with from time to time.
Saying, “How about you?,” doesn’t indicate that she is interested in you.
She merely used it because you asked her about what her plans were for the holidays and she felt it natural to throw the question back at you.
She doesn’t appear to be playing hard to get with you.
She just sees you as someone that she is somewhat acquainted with and treats you on par with the level of value that she has placed on the relationship.