I think I messed up with a girl

[Alan]

A few months ago I saw this girl named Abby in my high school and I wanted to talk to her but, I want sure if I was cool enough because of many reasons but the main one being I’m socially awkward. Well a few months past and I finally said hello to her. After that we would always say hi in the hallway and one one occasion I asked her how her day was and on another I asked her about a problem she had in class. Then on the last week before summer I wanted to ask her out but she had left the week before. So I gave her sister (who used to hang out in my group) a letter that had my numberin it and I also explained in the letter that I wanted to get to known her and I also asked her in the letter if she wanted to have dinner with me onSaturday. Well she never called so I though I just fucked things up or eith her sister didn’t give her the letter. Maybe I just rushed things?
What do you think went wrong?

[Lefty]

I doubt u fucked things you barely know each other atm if u have contact with her sister still ask if she did give the letter to her. Also I know this could possibly be weird but if she liked the confrontations u had with her maybe add her on social media and see if you two can get to know each other more there.and in my opinion asking a date can never be to soon. Just never get ur hopes up

[Alan]

Thanks lefty. It feels good to have someone take time to listen to your problems. I don’t have contact with her sister and she doesn’t have social media. But I feel it’s going to be awkward in a few months when I have to go back and see her again in the hallway. I really don’t know what to say to her?

[Lefty]

In my opinion it wont feel awkward unless you make it awkward I know it takes a lot but if you ever see her on her own go up to her but when you go back you will soon find out by her sister what happened best thing you can do is try but dont make it seem your coming across creepy. If you do ever have a chance to talk to her one on one ask her on a date dont be scared to do so you only live once maybe giving that letter wasn’t the best to give to her sister tho patience is key with most things gl to you tho and hope all goes well

[Alan Vasquez]

Thanks again lefty. When I go back in two months I’ll try not to make things awkward and play it cool. Hopefully, I’ll have a class with her or maybe talk to her in the hallway. I’m sorry I’m asking so many questions but, If I walked up to her locker I’m not sure on what to say? I was thinking of asking her about her summer but, I’m not sure if that’s the best thing to start of with.

[Alan Vasquez]

Thanks lefty for listening to me and helping me . I’ll come back in 2 months and tell you what happened.

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