December 12, 2019 at 2:57 pm #106621
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For the past few months I and my crush have made lots of eye contact, but never spoke to each other
and today we sat near each other. Towards the end of our class, he talked to his friend and while that occurred we made eye contact and I smiled, but he just stopped talking, as he was at loss of words and he stared at me for a few seconds and then gave a sweet smile.
I am really confused, could you by any chance tell me what this is all about?December 13, 2019 at 7:07 am #106623
Up until the moment that you smiled at him, he probably didn’t really know for sure whether you liked him.
For the past few months, the both of you have made lots of eye contact but have never spoken.
Hence, he was probably unsure about how you felt about him.
When you smiled at him in class as he was talking to his friend, he was most likely taken by surprise.
As you said, he was literally at a “loss for words.”
He stared back at you for a few seconds and gave you a sweet smile in response.
At that moment, he probably realized that there is more to all the eye contact that the both of you have been exchanging over the past few months.
He may start looking for that smile from this point on.
There is a good chance that the more you do it, the more likely he will feel the need to start a conversation with you in the near future.December 13, 2019 at 9:18 am #106626
Thank you so much for the clarification. I have been wanting to make a move but hesitate each time when it comes to it. When he paused at first I thought maybe he is not interested.
It has been really confusing when I see him his friend act up, but a few weeks ago he didn’t look as usual but his friend would look at me, and straight after that he would talk or whisper to him (my crush).
On top of that, I have a feeling that my friend has a secret crush on him too.
It is really messy.December 14, 2019 at 8:28 am #106650
There is a good chance that his friend knows how he feels about you.
His friend may have been looking at you a few weeks ago to see whether you would look at your crush.
He may have wanted to catch you in the act so that he could tell your crush that he just saw you looking at him.
Whether your friend has a secret crush on him or not, as long as he isn’t in a relationship, he is fair game.
If you still feel hesitant to make a move on him, keep making eye contact and smiling at him.
If he likes you, he should make a move at some point.December 15, 2019 at 9:35 am #106655
Thank you so much for the information! This has honestly made so much more sense to me. Ones again thank you so much!December 16, 2019 at 1:00 pm #106656
You are welcome Ava.