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Hello everyone,
I want to know your advice. It’s been a year since I met someone by facebook, someone with whom I have a lot of interest. We have spoken so many times about the text, even if he is not used to texting and telephone. One day he offered me a date and then canceled it. I was not so attached to him at that time but after that I can say that I am in him. But after this cancellation he was distant (virtually) and so I told him that I really loved him .. and He said we could not be together because He would hurt me .. And because I’m too young (I forget to tell you he’s older than me but that’s not a reason for me ..) Well I was disappointed and angry. Then I came back after a little while, we talk to each other like friends. And then months and months passed and we sometimes flirt again. We met once and it was very good, he told me … But then he ignored me a little, told me that he was busy and that I felt ghosted and that my heart was broken … We sent some text after, we sometimes flirt but I’m so tired of this situation because now we do not talk anymore since he moved (traveling) to another country. I really like his personality and his person but why is it so difficult. He once said that he was hurt in the past and did not want to open. I am crazy not to understand it. And I do not know what to do because I do not find anyone who attracts me a lot .. I’m hard on that. Please, tell me what you think.
Ok I was in a long distance relationship where my bf was older, so I kinda can relate but not really lol. He could of ghosted you for a few reasons, maybe he didn’t feel comfortable talking to someone younger, he could of lost interest, maybe not ready to love someone, that’s why he was afraid of hurting you, or he might be seeing someone else. Somtimes guys don’t like to give reasoning to why they stopped talking to you, but it might really be that he started getting serious with someone else and didn’t wanna feel guilty while talking to you… but that is only a possibility. He seems like a travler, maybe he just wasent ready for commitment. He really shouldn’t be messing with your feelings by ghosting you and then flirting with you, I know it might be hard but it’s proably best you move on because I’m sure you can find someone better. And don’t feel crazy because hes the one who can’t make up his mind! It’s not your fault. He just seems confused and has commitment issues. He canceled your date, he’s on and off coming into your life, hangs out with you one day and ghosts you the next, can’t stay in one country, and all in all just doesn’t seem fit for a serious relationship at the moment. Girl listen to me, I know you may be attached to what he once had to offer, but it’s been a year since you met him and things change. You need to find someone else that will make you just as happy as he once did, someone that won’t play with your feelings. I wish you the best of luck!
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