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May 26, 2020 at 9:42 pm #113400CiaraGuest
We were talking and planning to see each other. So one day, he said that my voice is a turn-off. It really hurt my feelings, but then he tries to talk to me and call me beautiful like nothing happened. So I posted a quote about finding someone who loves you as you are. He then removed me on Snapchat and blocked me on Instagram. And recently,in my Snapchat subscriptions, he was with another girl. Did he even feel bad about what he said to me? How could he move on so fast?May 28, 2020 at 3:08 am #113402AstridGuest
Good riddance to bad rubbish. He didn’t care about you and was possibly stringing you along then got his feelings hurt after your post. Him getting a new girl is probably his way of trying to make you jealous or hurt you even more. Move on sis. You’re a queen and best believe your king will find you and love you to the fullest.May 29, 2020 at 6:43 pm #113408CiaraGuest
Thank you 🙂 but could this mean that he had some sort of feeling for me for him to unadd me and post that girl? Mind that on Snapchat, if you remove someone, you can’t see what they post, but they can still see what you post, hence the term “subscription” I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong.May 30, 2020 at 6:14 am #113409AstridGuest
You haven’t done anything wrong but if he says your voice is a turn off how are you supposed to talk to him? How long had you guys been communicating before meeting up? He could also want you to chase after him and him saying hurtful things then turning around and saying something else could be him trying to see how much he can get away withMay 30, 2020 at 8:01 am #113410CiaraGuest
We talked for about two weeks up until that happened, he asked when I was coming to see him, but it never came into play. The whole voice thing happened when he sent me a Snapchat video of him talking, so I sent one back. Days later, I asked if he preferred texting or talking mentioned something about my voice, and that’s when he texted back saying what he said. And get this, in the same sentence, he said “sorry for being so blunt” So I cut the conversation short that night due to being so upset.May 30, 2020 at 1:01 pm #113411AstridGuest
If it’s just been 2 weeks move on. You deserve better. He wasn’t sorry he was just being plain rude. It looks like he was bored and wanted you for entertainment. And why didn’t he ask you out to lunch or a movie? Him asking when you were gonna see him just seems sketchy to me.May 30, 2020 at 4:33 pm #113412CiaraGuest
Good to know that I wasn’t the only one who saw something wrong with him asking me that. And the part that really sucks is that I offered to be there for him for emotional support, because at the time, he just found out that his pastor was diagnosed with cancer. But I’ll try not to let it get to me. After all, men always regret it later and try to come back, but it’ll probably be too late at that point. I have a feeling this could probably happen in this case…May 30, 2020 at 5:00 pm #113413AstridGuest
Did he give you evidence that his pastor really had cancer? How close is he to his pastor? He’s just using you. He is going to come back and with a very stupid excuse and tell you how much he misses you and How much you mean to him.May 30, 2020 at 10:21 pm #113414CiaraGuest
He didn’t actually tell me, he mentioned it on Snapchat(when we were talking) and I was there to comfort him. He seemed really upset, so I assume that he and his pastor are pretty close.May 31, 2020 at 11:45 am #113416AstridGuest
I’m getting player vibes from this guy,but if you want to give him a chance do so cautiouslyMay 31, 2020 at 2:35 pm #113420CiaraGuest
I feel like I’d be the biggest idiot if I were to do that lol, I doubt he’ll even try to come back, but oh well, perhaps it’s his loss *shrug*June 1, 2020 at 2:27 pm #113425AstridGuest
It’s his loss but best believe he’ll come back when he remembers what an amazing person you areJune 2, 2020 at 2:26 pm #113429CiaraGuest
Do men always come back when they know they’ve messed up? I’m curious.June 2, 2020 at 2:47 pm #113430AstridGuest
Trust me they do. But the power is in your hands,you get to assess how genuine and real the person is and if they are worth giving a second chance to or not. Guys usually come back when they realise they’ve made a mistake but some change their behaviour for the better and others unfortunately do not.June 7, 2020 at 2:09 pm #113465ZaraGuest
Hey girl. I know it’s gonna hurt initially because we’ve all been there. But I would say with 100% confidence you’ve done nothing wrong and he wasn’t serious or in love. 2 weeks is nothing on the grand scale of things and moving on will be your best bet and you’ll look back and laugh at this. Wish you all the best babes!June 8, 2020 at 7:49 am #113511CiaraGuest
Thanks Zara 🙂 I just have this strange feeling he’s gonna try and come back sooner or later and I can’t shake it off for some weird reasonJune 13, 2020 at 5:50 am #113538LilaGuest
you should feel like a goddess. 🙂June 13, 2020 at 8:41 pm #113540CiaraGuest
Thank you Lila!
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