He has a girlfriend but…

[Gen]

There is a guy that is in my grade and I have gone to school with him for 4 years. Recently he got a girlfriend a couple months ago. But, I also have noticed him looking at me A LOT. His body language has started to show signs of interest. He will point his body towards me and look at me a lot and also will try to be near me. When I am at my locker and he is walking by he will brush up against me just barely. Mind you, I haven’t talked to him since 6th grade when we texted each other so I don’t know him but I don’t know what to do because his body language is showing clear signs of attraction yet he has a girlfriend. I do however try and avoid eye contact every time I am near him and act as if I don’t like him because I don’t want him to think I do because what if he doesn’t like me. Should I start making eye contact with him? Does he think I don’t like him? Or, does he not like me at all and really like his girlfriend? What I see is that he is confused. He is super popular and really good at football his girlfriend is also super popular. I am not popular, more so in the middle. I need your help. What do you think? Does he like me and is too scared to talk to me because I might reject him? Am I not popular enough? Or is he really happy where he is right now?

[Gen]

However, last Wednesday when I had lunch he didn’t look at me once. He walked past my table to dump his tray because it happened to be in the path of where he was going but I didn’t look to see if he was looking at me. There will be some days when I think he doesn’t like me because I don’t catch him looking at me. We have a class together in 8th period and I am partners with two of his friends. He will talk to them and the other girls in that class that are popular but won’t ever talk to me.

[Tasha]

DON’T EVEN WORRY ABOUT THAT. BOTTOM LINE HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!! RESPECT THAT AND MOVE ON. If he looks at you politely say hey how are you? Simple greeting and move right on. Don’t read into that.

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